Dear Houdini (my disappearing man),Finally, a man who was not afraid to express his opinions. Over the past year, I went on scores of first dates with men who talked about themselves too much (do I really need to hear about your genius grandson for the third time on a first date?). Men whose idea of first date conversation is ex-wife bashing, complaining about their dire financial situat… Read all
When it comes to dating, relationships, and sex, here's what men said, thought, and worried about back when they were teenagers, and what they say, think, and worry about now that they're Over 50: Will her parents let her stay out late? Why don't her kids ever stay out late? Will she let me get to second base? How long after her mammogram 'til I can touch her boob? Will she laugh at my peach … Read all
UC BERKELEY — The quest for a post-racial society continues, even in the world of online dating, new research shows.Data from more than 1 million profiles of singles looking for love online confirms that whites overwhelmingly prefer to date members of their own race. The same is not true for blacks, especially men, who are far more likely to cross the race barrier to meet a mate.Researchers at the… Read all
With Thanksgiving just around the corner, I cannot help but dwell on who might be coming to dinner. Last holiday season gave me plenty of food for thought on this all too familiar and often uncomfortable racially-tinged question. One of my male relatives brought home a date for Thanksgiving who could have been Barbie's twin sister. She was blonde, thin, big-bosomed, and even had a Germanic name. S… Read all
Time will show no mercy or slow down for anyone! Times are changing and they are changing fast! Before we knew it, 2015 is more than half way over! So much has happened this year! Including a huge victory for the LGBT community, however, one thing still remains taboo at the dinner table.Who is “Jane” bringing to dinner? Will father be pleased to find out his sweet little girl is dating a Latino or… Read all

Benefits of an Interracial Relationship•  Learning about another culture or religion. •  Being exposed to new ways of thinking. •  Incorporating aspects of the culture/race/religion into you daily life. •  Becoming stronger in what you believe. •  Having an incredible experience with someone you love and respect. •  Possibly learning a new language. •  Being expo… Read all